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writes:Me and my ex went out for a year and a half, we had plans to get married, have children and all the rest.Sadly that all came to an end June last year, he had a change of heart and needed to rediscover who he was, and left. I was absolutely heartbroken and I didn't cope well and everyone said to me that we were the perfect couple.After 5 months, I found someone else, who made me happy, regardless of what I still had lingering in the back of my mind about my ex, and I went for it, we're still together now.. But my ex is now back. I had deleted him off of everything, erased his numbers, changed my number. you name it, I did it, and he asked everyone he knew until he found me again to tell me he loves me and he made a horrible mistake.I can't deny that I'm in love with him still, even after almost a year, but my current boyfriend has fallen for me, and I still like him a lot. Me and my ex had problems that still keep me on edge, but I don't know.. Surely if this much time has passed and we're still on eachothers minds, it must mean something?
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Ex's are bad news. He dumped you without warning last time, so what says that if something goes wrong again then he won't walk away? Look forward....not back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): ex boyfriends are never a good news.. seems like u got ur life straighten out n all that now..
people always say that going back to ur ex will open up old wounds. that includes the old issues that still keep u on edge and all that.. either way, just let him wait and see what he will do and until he has proven himself. actions speak louder than words.
how bout ur current boyfriend? it is still new, are u sure u want to end it before it event start? if u want ur ex back, u must make sure he worth more than ur current boyfriend (don't compare on the period of the relationship)
don't rush making this decision. by the way, it helps when you are away from both for awhile so that it will not interrupt ur mind. no rush..
good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 You will have to decide who you love more or can't live without.
Good luck to you .
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 he's your ex for a good reason
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