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writes:i have a dilemma. Lately my exs' brother has been coming around to visit my spouse. Their cousins. I had an affair with the brother a longtime ago and it ended bad. But now recently the cousins mom passed away and the two brothers basically despise each other. So i can't help but wonder if the other brother is over here to seek some kind of revenge by being around the ex? I have these strong feelings that the brother wants me and i even catch him staring at me. I not going to lie but secretly i still have feelings for the ex and would he be upset if he found out that his brother has been secretly coming over to visit? I really enjoy his brothers company and even fantasized about having sex with him..but never acted on it. Even though i know if i came on to him we would have sex. So am i being played by the brother so he can seek revenge on his brother and if i sleep with him will he tell my ex? So confused???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Are you serious? This is a stupid question. You already cheated on your husband once and it ended badly. But you are basically asking if we think it's ok for you to cheat with this guy and if he is doing it for revenge or not...
What does it matter? You obviously wanna sleep with him anyway. It doesn't even seem to bother you that you are married. I would hate to be your husband!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 You need to be more assertive and be fair to your spouse. You have a mind of your own and you should not be played by your ex.
You don't have to be any part of your ex's plan unless you wanted it.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (19 April 2010):
No disrespect but you are old enough to know better. This will end in tears if you proceed and it will be your tears in my opinion.
It will leave you with other issues to resolve?
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