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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am married and love with a married woman. we both are in love for last couples of months. The problem is that both of us loves our family much and never want to do any such things which embarrass our family life and we con't leave without each other. The only indian culture(patibata nari) resist her to have a relation with each other. please advise how we should overcome her psychology.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): How about asking your wife to overcome "patibata nari" and have sex with another man?Does it sound nice to you.I bet you would become so angry and say,"My wife is not such a woman".So your wife should be a Sati Savitri and someone else's wife should be sl**?
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reader, LoveGirl  +, writes (11 April 2010):
Without going into the right and wrongs about having affairs and the devastation it causes to the other spouses you need to take note of the following; you need to make a decision: EITHER THE MISTRESS OR THE WIFE, you cannot have both and it is wrong to expect your wife to settle for second best. you are married, she is marriedi am sure you both have kids tooextended families- you will not only embarress them but hurt them tremendously.i am confused so please help me understand something:in your part of the world i know that husbands expect their wives to be pure and virgins, i am sure you would not want another man to taste the flesh of your wife, then why are you with another woman who is having sex with another man (that man also being her husband). does the 'urity" concept not also extend to lovers/mistresses. from what you have written you may only want your wife for yourself and you may not want to share her, so why must she share you with your married lover.
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