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writes: I wonder if man cheats on their wife's,and leaves them for someone else , more often ,than women does/? I have an impression,that in young age maybe it is sort of equal, woman and man both searching,and cheating. But the way I see ,after long marriages,it s almost always the man who dumps their wife,usually for younger woman.. I know it is stereotyping,but I see this happening everywhere. And it is not enough,that they just have an affair, but actually ,they leave the whole family behind.. I mean, that is how I see it. But correct me ,if I m wrong. I'm truly afraid, Im in danger ,because my husband totally ,dont have any sexy look on his face ,when he looks at me. And no matter how much I good at taking care of myself, I feel, Im next to get dumped. Its like ,I can't do anything to stop this. Like a destiny. And,seriously,I'm thinking to leave before he does.. I know,it i s hard to so say ,that it will really happen,but I feel insecure. What should I do with my insecurities? I don't think,I can be more beautiful, or exciting in my age. But I cant live, without affection, and attention. Please help me out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Well,I do still think ,there is more mid life man will dump,their wife,and I do think there is an epidemic. Woman just wants to enjoy their stability,but man feels very depressed from that,and jump to a passion,because they dont learn about themselves.I know,there are many good man ,but I just saw this happen too many times. Maybe the mother thing is more of a holding thing. Im not talking about people with no kids, or dating. It is about long term...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): I feel since we have very liberal divorce system is the reason for t hat. Should we disallow NO - FAULT DIVORCE in our country
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): hi first off stop feeling insecure he feels this energy and your negative thinking gets in the way. just because certain things happen to people doesnt mean its gonna happen to you. there are articles that helped me out you can check it out for tips http://relationshipflame.blogspot.com/
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reader, Myau  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Quite awhile ago know a book came out saying Men are from Mars and women are from venus, this was then and is now a load of crap.Men are from earth and so are women. Our differences are very superficial and actually quite small. Simply put we are just as bad as eachother. Ther are men cheating and leaving their wives for younger girls, but just as mant women are doing the same thing.You arnt going to get dumped. Ofcourse he doesnt look at you like he used to but nither do you look at him the same way.Stop worrying about it and instead focus on enjoying your time together and maybe trying some new things or traveling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): If your husband is not making you feel attractive or giving your the attention you feel that he should I suggest that you talk to him. I think its very unfair to use a stereotype to predict your husbands future behaviour. There is just as much chance of him leaving you for a younger woman as there is for him not leaving you at all.
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