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writes:Im currently in a situation, where I'm crazy about this guy, i THINK he may feel the same- but we can't really be together, because of distance. We've known each other for about three years, and he moved a couple of months ago. I'm so confused, so torn up inside at the moment, and everytime we talk we do tiptoe around things a bit. I will be seeing him at the end of the year, but what thats going to be like I don't know. Now, I know, you're supposed to play the game, etc, but I'm close to telling him everything. Im just wondering, if I should? Or if you are in a similar situation or ever have been, and how did that play out for you? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Three years is a long time to not express your liking. I don't know what was stopping you from telling him until now. You would only sound needy if you call him all the time but if you act too cool he's not going to detect anything and would assume you accept this friendly flirty arrangement. You are confused because you repressed those feelings and now you don't know what you want. A lot of things can happen in a few month's time. He may have found another one; he may decide to live there in the future. All you have to tell him is that you are still interested and would look forward to seeing him again. I've never been in a situation like this, that's because I ended it before it put in my energy. There are too many interesting guys around for me to wait for the one.
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