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writes: Ok so last night on Facebook me and my bud were talkin about stuff and we got on the subject of handjobs and exchanging them for a little while we actually agreed to exchange them at my birthday party in summer. But then i got to thinking and was totally creeped out and said no cause i was scared cause i think its gay and i really dont wanna be gay. So please users tell me if you think this is gay but remember we did not do it we jus talked about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): hey it might be a bit gay but like if ur twelve and ur going through puberty it might be a good thing like to release sperm but i think u should keep it to your self and ur friend and make sure u clean up afterwards with hand wipes or something and trust me im twelve and me and friends are going through a lot of hormonic mood swings
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Um maybe it started out as joking, but seems like one of you meant it. And yes it is gay, but don't be ashamed of it if you really are. Maybe you don't know it yet, which is normal for someone your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm the one who asked this question, and just letting evry1 know it just made me feel really guilty and totally disgusted wt myself for even considering giving and receiving a hand-job from another guy so ive been praying and everything and trying my best to forget
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): no, this does not mean you are gay at all. it means you are exploring your sexuality. its a healthy part of growing up. i would however like to add that you are young and perhaps a little too young to be engaging in any form of sexual activity. i would suggest you try and avoid sexual activities at your age (although masturbation is fine) and concentrate on growing up and discovering who you are. when you are older (at least 16) then you should experiment as much as you want with male or female
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): It is impossible for us to tell you if you are gay or not but i think that a straight guy would not discuss the possibility of giving a friend of his a hand job and maybe you only backed out because you felt it was wrong or because you say dont want to be gay. But if youdo have homosexual feelings you cant hlp it and it is nothing to be ashamed of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): well talking about actualy giving a handjob to your friend is, to be honest, quite weird and will be seen by any outsider as homosexual. From your age i am guessing your only just being involved and leaning about anything sexual properly.I was you i would probably just tell your friend it was only a joke and give yourself some time to figure out what you really want and not jump into anything which could if the rest of your friends found out pretty much scar you for life if you wasn't gay. Its probably just your hormones going all over the place kid and you just wanting someone to touch you there. Figure out what you want first before you take such a leap.
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reader, Aliceinunderland  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with wondering, but, I would class gay as involvement in any sort of sexual activity.
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