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*arthangel165
writes:Since september, ive liked this guy, B. and for awhile we were soooo close. like for example, he would sing to me and hold me and stuff like that. We were so close it seemed like we were dating. He is a really nice and romantic person. then one day he just...stopped talking to me around february. We didnt talk for a month. The whole time i was so depressed. i still dont kno why he stopped talking to me. So, I went up to him and asked him what I did wrong. He told me i didnt do anything. He said that it was his fault because the school play was keeping him really busy...now i know this is a B.S. answer, but he did start talking to me again(this was around the third week of March) But now, we talk a little bit. but hes been on and off being my friend for the whole month now. I dont even know if i still like him anymore. I want to be his friend but its hard when i dont know what he is thinking. When i ask him if he wants to be my friend he says "why wouldnt i?" then he tells me that im amazing and the nicest person he has ever known. Like he makes me so happy to be around him. But i just feel like he doesnt want me anymore. WHat should i do?
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reader, darthangel165 +, writes (12 April 2010):
darthangel165 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks! i will definitely back off. I was planning to anyway. I'll keep u updated =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Back off. Stop chasing him. He is not a friend because a real friend would not do this to you. Leave him be for a while, concentrate your energies on yourself and your real friends. Let him see you happy without him and it just might make him think twice about what he threw away. If he is a real friend he will come to you. If not then he was never your friend to start with.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 We woman always make the fatal mistake of chasing the guys. Make him chase you. Fill your life up with friends and hobbies and make him compete for your attention. If he's really into you he will make the effort and go the extra mile to be with you. If he doesn't move on there are plenty more fish in the sea who will be willing to treat you like a princess.
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