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writes:I take a class outside of school, and there's this very good looking guy who is my table partner. I'm almost 18 and he's 21. When I first met him, I asked if he's single, and he didn't say anything. Since then though, he added me on facebook, aim, and skype. Through facebook I found out he has a gf - who goes to college very far away - so I backed off. But he keeps going at me. He never mentions his gf, but we found out we have a lot in common, and he flirts with me SO MUCH (poking, bit me on the arm once, light pushing, leans in close, writes notes, made a mix cd). He called us friends after like the 2nd class meeting. Then once he said, "I'm joking around because I like you. No, I am FOND OF you, liking suggests too much". Now he invited me to come over to his church sometime.If this is considered cheating, well that's his fault, but I'm kind of stuck. Might he actually be attracted, or is he screwing around? I really like him.He's a Pisces, if that helps.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 April 2010):
Screwing around. Cheating men are quite predictable. They cheat and use everyone. That's what will happen to you. You won't be able to trust him, you'll have hurt his girlfriend and you'll take the blame. Don't think he will. He will look back for cheating, but you will be the one who everyone really blames. He has a girlfriend, so don't waste your time. If he likes you that much, then he can dump her and come to you.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Okay, you saw in Facebook that he has a girlfriend. It's obvious you're into him, but put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes: it's an awful pain to be cheated on.
Tell him straight forward. What he is doing is just plain wrong. If you keep playing along with his little "innocent" acts, you'll soon put yourself too deep into the situation and wouldn't mind him cheating on his girlfriend.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Know what you are dealing with and if anything happens ,it is nobody's fault but your own.
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