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writes:i'm 16 years old and i've been in a relationship for 4 months,this is my second relationship but i feel that i don't love my girlfriend as same as before, every day we talk 2-3 hours i don't know i got bored or what? but i want her and i want to love her as same as i loved my first girlfriend but i feel i can't.(at the beginning of our relation we had a lot of problems but it's all resolved now),sometimes i feel that she is a kid.She is 15 years old and i can't explain to her how i feel because she is preparing for her exams after 2 months and she loves me alot so i'm afraid that this affects her focus.Now what should i do?do i continue or break up?need help guys thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i told u guys that o want her,its just i dont know that o love her or not!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 It would be kinder to her to break it off after her exams. If you break it off now , she may be greatly affected and perform poorly in her exams.
You don't want to be responsible for her poor results.Do you ?
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reader, danni95  +, writes (11 April 2010):
really if you think that you dont love her and dont feel right with her then really there is no point staying in a relationship with her and about her exams really thats her problem she may love you alot but she has to get over it sometime and get on with her life (exams). you cant really stay in a relationship with her if you dont feel right and you cant just not break up just over exams its your life do what you think is right no one can stop you! hope this helps you :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Try to limit your talk to 45 minutes maximum. 2-3 hours is torture man. Cell phones are unhealthy for you. If you are using your home phone your parents get mad. They want you to contribute some to family duties. She should save her yaggety yaggety with her female friends. Yes wait until her exams are over. Do something fun to celebrate. Then express your feelings on what you want in your relationship and how you would like to spend your time. I trust that you can do that without arguing okay? You might find out she's willing to adapt to your lifestyle.
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