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writes:Hi...Ok where do I start?I've been dating this guy well call him Allen for about...well, over a year now. and recently he went through some medical scares. He has since had to change anti-depressants to something else. because the one he was on was messing up his white bloodcell count.Since this medication change he has broken it off with me, claiming he loves me but he's not sure if he is "in love" with me anymore. I don't understand this, as just days before the med change he was telling me how precious I am an how much he loved me.He asked me to give him a week to just be by himself, I don't know what a week will acomplish, but I am trying.Right now we are living in different states, and I am thinking of flying out to see him, not to ambush him but to sit down with him face to face and talk things out. Somewhere inside I know he still loves me, we were never ones to fight or even raise our voices to eachother...could this all be med related? is my going to see him a bad idea?? I dont mean just show up at his house I mean, try to be friendly with him again and just call him saying im in the area.I just dont understand.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Darling the guy wants some space.
He prolly just doesn't like you anymore but he knows he's having a hard time so he wants to make sure he knows what he is doing.
Give him some time but make sure after the time u get the answers he was hoping to acquire after this time.
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