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writes:i've lived with my boyfriend for 1 and a half year. things is goin very well at first. but now, Alot of things change. yes! we're Stil loving, the only problem is his temper. he has very hot temper. he always wants Me to listen to him. if i don't obey, we will start quarrelling. but the funny parts is after e whole Quarel, we will still b fine. how Can i stop him from so hot temper n also more caring. how to make him listen to Me then i listen to him? if Thr's no solution, Im sure we ended up breaking up. which i don't want. because we already intend to get married. i hate It whenever we had a Quarel he would ask Me to move back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni Tink Im too cheerful. normally Aft a big Quarel. Lyk shouting at each other. almost gettin into a fight. Wen we calm down i'll Stil smile to him. i don't want tis to continue. i think he has taken It for granted, so now i would shout at him before he shout at Me. even his Mum would ask Me to live him. he is too Much. like his dad. but his dad passed away when he is 14. whenever i want to live him. i Cant bear to. i just feel Lyk taking care of him. i don't know how to treasure Me more.
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reader, Aliceinunderland  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 When your partner gets annoyed and you argue, you are both giving negative vibes. I suggest that you listen to whatever he has to say, do not argue with him, just listen. Once you have heard what he has to say do not judge him, understand what he means and offer a solution. The trick here is to stay calm and feed to him calm vibes. The more you argue the more angry he gets. Don't let it get to you!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 ooops should be both not bith :-)
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (11 April 2010):
Does he hate the way you bith fight too? If he does get some books out of the library on conflict management and effective arguing. Learn how to argue constructively.
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