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*ynn1977
writes: Hello! I am friends with my exboyfriend's new girlfriend and I really care about her! I was verbally and physically abused by him and she knows everything that happened and how he treated me! He even told her himself!But to the extent that it was. She says he has never hit her but does call her names sometimes! Why does she stay with him knowing that he has treated an exgirlfriend like that?
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reader, lynn1977 +, writes (11 April 2010):
lynn1977 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone who responded!!!! Your advice really helped!!! I am going to let her find out for herself and hopefully she will not have to find out.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (11 April 2010):
Cos she probably thinks it'll be different with her. It's the oldest one in the world.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 April 2010):
The same reason that you stayed with him for a while. She can't see it. She can't see the abuse, and needs to find out who he is for herself. You could shows her pictures of him hurting you, and she's just say 'he's changed'. Sometimes people have to make their mistakes. Let her make them.
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