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Why does she stay with him when she knows hoe he treated me?

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Question - (11 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *ynn1977 writes:

Hello! I am friends with my exboyfriend's new girlfriend

and I really care about her! I was verbally and physically abused by him and she knows everything that happened and how he treated me! He even told her himself!

But to the extent that it was. She says he has never hit her but does call her names sometimes! Why does she stay with him knowing that he has treated an exgirlfriend like

that?

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A female reader, lynn1977 United States +, writes (11 April 2010):

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Thank you everyone who responded!!!! Your advice really helped!!! I am going to let her find out for herself and

hopefully she will not have to find out.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2010):

boo22 agony auntCos she probably thinks it'll be different with her. It's the oldest one in the world.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2010):

The same reason that you stayed with him for a while. She can't see it. She can't see the abuse, and needs to find out who he is for herself. You could shows her pictures of him hurting you, and she's just say 'he's changed'. Sometimes people have to make their mistakes. Let her make them.

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