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writes:me and this guy have been friends for 8 years, we been sleeping together on and off for about 6 years. i have falling deeply in love with him. he tells me that he doesnt want a relationship, but then he does and say things that make me feel that he love me too. i've stop talking to him many times and we always end up talking again. he tell me i'm his security blanket, that i'm his closest female friend and that he needs me. at times i belive it not love but then when he looks at me i feel like there noone else in the world. recently we talked about our feelings and he told me that i had a chance to be him and i didn't take it. at that time i was mad at him i didn't want to believe it, he also told he knows we will end up together in the future. what should i do? should i stay and wait for him or should i move on?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 April 2010):
Basically he's using you. You need to stop this now. He doesn't love you. He's just using you for sex, telling you all the things you want to hear so you'll keep coming back for more. One day, he will meet a woman he wants to be with, and you'll end up hurt. Stop this now unless you want to get hurt.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (11 April 2010):
 He's using you. If he wanted to be in a relationship with you he would be. At the moment he is reaping all the benefits of a relationship (company, closeness & sex) without actually being in a relationship with you.
Stop sleeping with him and stand back from this situation. My feeling is that you have become stuck in limbo with this guy and you are wasting your time on him when you could be with someone who is willing to offer you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Well firstly if its a relationship your after you need to stop sleeping with him, because if he knows he can get sex and have a close relationship with you... from his eyes why does he need to be in a relationship? Im sure if you make your intentions clear to him and explain your not going to be messed around he will make his mind up, and from the way you have described your relationship im sure he will choose you.
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