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Boyfriend knows I don't love him but still wants to keep trying!

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Question - (11 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2010)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *yinkansola writes:

I told my boyfriend i wasnt inlove with him,i said i think am still inlove with my ex...i even went 2 the extent of trying 2 break up with him because at that time i was feeling guilty about d whole thing.but he pleaded with me and told me to give it sumtime,i said ok but i want him to keep seaching for another girl someone that would love him the way he truly deserved.but he said he wants nobody else.it has happend way back,it has even being up to 5months,and i have even forgotten about evryting.not until lastweek that my sister told me she saw him in a eatry with another girl.i dint take it 2 be anyting,not until today that i saw him with that same girl again at the same place.my gosh i felt really terrible...!the annoying part of it is that i called him up and asked where he was,he said he was with a male friend of his that they are going for shopping...!my God i felt really terrible....please i need your help on what to do!

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A female reader, Oyinkansola Nigeria +, writes (11 April 2010):

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Oyinkansola agony auntThank you so much for the advice am very greatful...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2010):

I guess it's kind of a case that you thought you would move on and that he wouldn't move on so fast. I think you would be better moving on now, since you also really want to find someone else. I think you should just say that you have made a decision to move on, and that it's final.

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A female reader, Oyinkansola Nigeria +, writes (11 April 2010):

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Oyinkansola agony auntBut why do i feel so terrible seeing him with another girl...?he is coming over to my place right now should i ask him about it or just let everything go...?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2010):

You told him to keep looking for another girl, and he did. So this is the now the time to end all contact and move on from him.

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