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writes:hi my name is xoxoxoxo and i am a virgin and i really want to have sex i have a boyfriend and i really love him hes not a virgin but i am i tried to let him do it but it hurts when he tries to go in so i make him stop is it me what should i do i need help i think if i dint have sex with him he will leave me and i dont want that to happen Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): If your a virgin sex will hurt because your being I know its sounds awful but your being streched and your heymen broken so you might get a little blood not all girls blled but some do so dont worry the best thing is if you relex but most of all you have to want it your self not just because your boyfirend might leave you and although done dont go in to sex with the mind frame of its gonna hurt because you'll tighten up and it will hurt more than it should so just relex and make your its what you want Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): If hes gonna leave if you dont have sex with him then its the wrong person for you first time If he loved you or cared about you he would wait even if that meant waiting months or maybe longer so i dont think you should love you v-card to him unless you know he'll wait for it Just remember your the one losing you v-card your the only one who knows when your ready to have sex .:) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): If you are having sex with him so he won't leave then it is the wrong person to lose your virginity to!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 If sex is the only thing that you can keep him by your side , it is better off without him. When he gets tired of your sex ,he will leave you .
Have more foreplay's and use KY Jelly to help with the penetration. If you still encounter pain , you need to visit your health care provider.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Well if he's tried to have sex with you already (put his penis in you in anyway) then you're not a virgin, even if it was half way in.I think the reason it hurts him is because you've never done it before, so your vagina is very tight at the moment, so it's a squeeze to get in and is hurting the tip of his penis. It's normally the female that finds sex hurtful sometimes, especially her first time.If however he will leave you because you're not or can't have sex, then you should be the one leaving because that just shows he's using you.All the best.
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Well xoxoxoxo, the first thing you need to do is remember punctuation for future questions. Seriously, it make reading it bearable.Now, for you answer, I suggest you work at a pace that you feel comfortable with. I'm sure if you explain to him that this is something you can't rush, he'll understand. If he doesn't, he wasn't worth it anyway.
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