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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Have you ever been so confused?I really like this boy and I have for absolutely ages.. we have been through so much together.. but he can never see that I truly feel more than a friend for him.Recently, We have fallen out. And somewhere deep down.. i feel i did it for attention. I said he has changed and is a manslag now... which he actually has turned into. He tells me he loves me but also tells other people he loves them. Once he had flirted with me, he went to another girl and felt her boobs and then came back to me. I did not talk to him for over a week and he kept talking to my friends about me asking what he had done. He seemed really upset. I finally wanted to forgive him and wrote him a note saying something like..I miss our friendship and Im not asking you to change everything for me but i just want you to be yourself and not be someone your not. And i have not been your friend because I wanted to show you how it feels to loose a friend because of Changes. He came over to me in form time.. and he came over to me as my friend had told me to talk to me. And he held my hand and said sorry.. i secretly passsed him the note and watched him read it on the table across the room. He looked so sad when he read it and looked like he was really taking it in. We walked out of form and my friend told him to give me a hu and make up and so we did. And then Later on after Physical Education I walked passed him and all of my friends were with him.. I did not want him to think i was obssessed so i just smiled at him and spoke to my friends as we were discussing an important matter. :) Then we all separated and went off to our lessons. Later on Instant Messenger. I was speaking to my friend and she is in most of his lessons and she said he hasnt been around the girls and flirting with them as much.. he has just been away with the fairies. I really truly want him to change,.. because To be honest.. I fancy him so much. I will be sitting my him in science tomorrow. Do you think he will change? What could I do? Any advice.. please :)
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reader, Confizzled  +, writes (9 October 2009):
Honestly, I was in this same situation. I didnt tell him. i was the "best-friend" for 7 years. Then i told him one night that i really him as more than just a friend, and as it turned out, he liked me all along. Guys will flirt just to see if you get jealous. you can either tell him how you feel, in words, not a note.. or you can play the best friend for years... its up to you.
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