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writes:hi 26 and ive been attracted to females all my life,im in a serious relationship but latley ive been asking myself am i gay,i cant get it out of my head.when im around other males i get an uneasy feeling and my thoughtss run wild,not in a sexual way but i just keep asking am i gay.i cant watch gay porn,ive never got an erection over a male,and wen im with my gf im alway getting hardons just by her simply touching me.can someone pls shed some light as to why i hav these thoughts,its really depressing me
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (8 October 2009):
 You are not gay. Sometimes we just get a thought in our heads that becomes like an itch and it won't go away as long as we think about it. You have to give yourself a break and not worry about it.
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reader, hijacked_dignity  +, writes (8 October 2009):
 I think you're just trying to knock yourself down over something that is totally unrelated to what's really bothering you. Maybe you're starting to feel insecure about the relationship you have right now? Or maybe there is something else in your life that is worrying you, so you shift your attention on your worries about being gay in order to avoid the true issues going on.
You should probably stop asking this question now, because you obviously aren't gay. You don't get off on guys, you don't think of them sexually, and you really enjoy the touches of your girlfriend. Gay men generally have the opposite reactions that you are displaying right now, so you can't be gay. Is there someone you know who is gay and you are having difficulties with it? It seems to me that there is another source to this unnecessary anguish. You should most likely stop worrying about this and start enjoying your life with your girlfriend. It seems to me the depression is based on unsupported fears.
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