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writes:Hi, I have a Girlfriend, who is very possive and very emotional. I am very true to her and honest at every thing I say to her, howeever she thinks I am cheating on her(which I am not) andevery time I am out with friends or attending a party or Just any where execpt home or work she says I am with some girl or the other and she starts crying, now she has started to say that she will commit sucide and make me responsible for it, all this is stressing me out a lot, she is crying all the time and all I am doing every day is conviencieng her how much I love her and am not cheeting her, It has been a long time since we had a decent conversation and my stress levels are at the peak and every time she speaks and cry's I feel like killing myself by hering what she says. I want to make this relation work without getting stressed and have a normal scial life. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): What you could try... Is talking dirty to her during sex. Say things like,
'You are the one I want'
'Your pussy is the only one I want'
'I'm going to nail this sweet pussy forever'
'You make me rock hard, I love fucking you'
'When you're at work, I'm lusting for my hot pussy'
'There's nothing better than fucking your pussy'
'Your pussy's mine'
Things like that. Make her feel that SHE is the one. Mix it up with tame romantic stuff. Make sure to make her cum while talking dirty. If not with your dick in her, then with your finger.
Oh, and before starting the dirty talk, make sure she is really turned on first so that she accepts it.
If all goes well, she will stop thinking that you are cheating.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): Like Gina says, she needs help to get over her paranoia that you're cheating because the situation isn't going to get any better, only worse.
I think you need to give her an ultimatum - she either gets that help or you're going to leave her. If you do have to leave her you'll feel that a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you can get on with a normal life in a normal relationship with someone else who isn't quite so disturbed as this woman.
Ignore her threats of suicide, which is basically emotional blackmail. Staying with her because she's threatening to kill herself is not a good reason for staying and it's certainly not a good foundation for a happy relationship.
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