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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello :)I really like one of my close guy friends and alot of my friends think that he likes me back. However, he is a big womanizer; always flirting with every girl, and alot of girls flirt back. But I'm different to alot of girls, I have no idea how to flirt, instead I just make him laugh alot (sometimes at me, sometimes with me haha.) We always have deep talks and open up alot to each other. He told me he flirts so much just to make him confident. He is a nearly two years older than me (A year above in school, but my birthday is in august and his is in september so...) He always compliments me and hugs me, he will come up to me when I'm with my friends. He asked my best friend who I like, and he said it was out of curiosity. I don't want to tell him I like him, as everytime I told a guy I liked him, they only liked me as a close friend. Apparently it's obvious that I like him, and so I think he knows. But recently he's started to flirt with me ALOT. For some reason, I hate it. I feel like just another girl that he flirts with, when he always says I'm "unique". I confronted him about leading people on and he says he's going to try and stop. Now I can't help but think that all this deep things he says to me are lies. He never seems to act deep in person. The thing is, I've always seen him as nearly perfect. I can just never work him out! Please help me at least get some idea of whats going on in that brain of his. Has he been leading me on?
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (9 October 2009):
 Too young to womanize. But if he "bed-hops" at a later age, then that spells trouble. Then he's a party-boy. Good for laughs but not much more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): I think if he is 15 or there abouts he is not a womanizer, he is a healthy teenage boy who wants to have a lot of girl friends, not girlfriends.
He sounds nice to me if he is open and talking to you and flirting with you then he probably likes you quite a bit, but he isn't going to claim you as a girlfriend because he is one of the smart ones and realizes he is too young to be tied to one special person.
I bet he is active in school and other activities, too.
I bet he has a lot of friends both girls and guys.
Is he a good student or a goof off?
If he has any of those qualities then stop crushing on him and be his friend....you never know years later it could be something else, but you are a little too young to be concerned about being something else.
So you like him and you enjoy his attention and his company, what is so wrong with that. So he hasn't singled you out as the only girl he wants to speak too, this does not a liar make. He hasn't done anything to betray your trust that I can see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2009): give it another month. see what happens.
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