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My bf rips my thongs on purpose. how can I make him stop.

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Question - (8 October 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ill make this short and simple. my boyfriend keeps literally ripping my underwear everytime we have sex! we will get into the mood and he will legit RIP my thong off! im getting rly irritated because i keep having to buy new ones! i have told him to just stop but he says "i cant help it! i cant control myself!"

why is he so inclined to do this all the time??? should i just keep buying new ones? its getting ridiculous!

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (8 October 2009):

Lola1 agony auntI agree... have him buy you replacement panties. Then he can rip them off you and you don't have to worry about it.

Any special favourites can be worn when you won't see him, or you can take them off yourself when you know things are getting heated up.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (8 October 2009):

Honeypie agony auntMAKE him bu you new ones.. that simple or go commando.. ( that is no panties at all)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009):

What you need to do is take control and start ripping his underwear! Just bring a pair of scissors and start cutting away. And tell him "You better hope I dont miss a cut!" That will scare him straight to not mess with your thongs anymore ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009):

Sell the torn and used ones on eBay, or Craig's List!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009):

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haha thankks guys. & i totally know this is funny, but its rly pissing me off!! :P but from now onnn HE will be buying them loll

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A female reader, hijacked_dignity United States +, writes (8 October 2009):

hijacked_dignity agony auntI know I shouldn't be laughing, because thongs are kind of expensive depending on the place, but this is kinda funny. What would I do?

Maybe if you're one of those kinky people, stop wearing underwear. Or what would be even funnier is if you put the biggest granny panties on underneath and when he goes to rip them, he immediately gets turned off at the size of those bloomers. And then he asks you why you chose them, you just state that his habit of ripping thongs was getting too expensive. So you decided to downgrade.

Haha. Seriously though, I would just tell him to knock it off. Start ripping his boxers. Or, like the previous poster said, start making him buy you expensive underwear. Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009):

I'd tell him to hand over his credit card and go buy new ones! If it's something that doesn't offend you then just keep buying more - but make him pay. If he doesn't want to pay for them then he can find the will to stop ripping them!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009):

Start thorwing a shoe out the window each time... tell him, I can't help it... and see what happens...

Seriously, take him shopping and make him by you a dozen tongs, tell him it's the price he has to pay... after he rips six, take him shopping again... and repeat till he outgrows it, or you outgrow him...

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (8 October 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntYes, just keep getting new ones. He obviously enjoys doing this. What is his sexual enjoyment worth? They're only thongs. Besides, in a year you'll have a box of ripped thongs collection that you can both look back at and laugh at :) Just go with it, there are much worse habits in this world that your boyfriend could have.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 October 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntSolution - HE buys you panties for him to rip through.

Tell him, "you break it, you bought it."

A funny situation (though frustrating, I'm sure!)!!

Good luck, sweetness!

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