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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok well my penis is a little over 4 inches and with that i have no confidence am i ok for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): P.S.:
DO NOT WATCH PORN FOR SEX TIPS. If you want sex tips, watch romantic films or read romance novels. Even though most men in those books are hung like horses, the scenes/techniques you read are written to turn women on. It's not just about penetration for women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Mines about the same size and I've struggled with that off and on. The truth is it's kind of woman by woman but for the most part I've been a very successful lover. I once overheard a woman that I had been with bragging about how many organisms I gave her ("I couldn't believe it, he made me cum four times!"). I touch the "back" of my fiancees vagina. Just remember, all women are shaped different (height/weight does not mean much about her vagina)and not all women have orgasms from intercourse.
The thing I've learned is to be a "complete" lover. Make her feel loved and special. Turn her on before you even reach any over her sexual parts. Learn to caress her body: her back, the outside and inside of her legs. Touch her face while kissing, cup the back of her head with your hand. Run your fingers over her arms. Rub her chest above her breasts. The trick (in my opinion and that of my fiancee) is to make her feel special and loved.
Make sure you are attentive to what she enjoys. Be a good kisser and not just on her lips (ears, neck, shoulder). Then, when things are warmed up, be a little aggressive/assertive. She'll let you know when. The trick (again, MHO) is to be in control and just a little rough without actually hurting her. This isn't all the time, sometimes just soft and sweet is really good. If you cause pain, you've most likely gone too far. When women are turned on, many of them like the feeling that her man is going to "take her" because he's so turned on. Firm but gentle.
Oral and manual stimulation are going to be a big part of your game and if you are good at it your woman will really really really appreciate you.
Your penis is fine. When thrusting, start slow and make sure you get a good tempo going. Give her some time of you thrusting before you stop or change pace. Then vary it. Some short quick thrusts, followed by some deep hard ones. Make sure you "talk" to her and ask her if she likes that (don't ask her repetitively though cause you'll just annoy her).
In the end, be attentive to your partners needs and enjoy yourself. If you are a comfortable, fun lover that pays attention to your partner, you'll be a better lover than a good percentage of guys with bigger members than you.
Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Mines about the same size and I've struggled with that off and on. The truth is it's kind of woman by woman but for the most part I've been a very successful lover. I once overheard a woman that I had been with bragging about how many organisms I gave her ("I couldn't believe it, he made me cum four times!"). I touch the "back" of my fiancees vagina. Just remember, all women are shaped different (height/weight does not mean much about her vagina)and not all women have orgasms from intercourse. The thing I've learned is to be a "complete" lover. Make her feel loved and special. Turn her on before you even reach any over her sexual parts. Learn to caress her body: her back, the outside and inside of her legs. Touch her face while kissing, cup the back of her head with your hand. Run your fingers over her arms. Rub her chest above her breasts. The trick (in my opinion and that of my fiancee) is to make her feel special and loved. Make sure you are attentive to what she enjoys. Be a good kisser and not just on her lips (ears, neck, shoulder). Then, when things are warmed up, be a little aggressive/assertive. She'll let you know when. The trick (again, MHO) is to be in control and just a little rough without actually hurting her. This isn't all the time, sometimes just soft and sweet is really good. If you cause pain, you've most likely gone too far. When women are turned on, many of them like the feeling that her man is going to "take her" because he's so turned on. Firm but gentle.Oral and manual stimulation are going to be a big part of your game and if you are good at it your woman will really really really appreciate you. Your penis is fine. When thrusting, start slow and make sure you get a good tempo going. Give her some time of you thrusting before you stop or change pace. Then vary it. Some short quick thrusts, followed by some deep hard ones. Make sure you "talk" to her and ask her if she likes that (don't ask her repetitively though cause you'll just annoy her). In the end, be attentive to your partners needs and enjoy yourself. If you are a comfortable, fun lover that pays attention to your partner, you'll be a better lover than a good percentage of guys with bigger members than you. Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): oh yes, quite ok. :)
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