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writes:Is something wrong with me that I love my family but I dont like them? Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (2 November 2009):
Wow, you sound 100% normal !
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 What your feeling is totally normal!
I absolutely love my family and would fight until the ends of earth for them but I dont like any of them.
I dont like my mum -she's uncaring, i dont like my brother -he's selfish and ungrateful
I dont like my aunt -she's greedy
i could go on...
My family to sum up, are annoying, selfish, traditional, backward, not very openly loving, never buy me a birthday card... even my grandad told me im not welcome to his house anymore!
Even when I had an injury they didnt come and visit or take care of me.
All this is I dont like about them. The list is endless.
HoweverI do love them which makes me a better person.
Despite all the bad things they have said or done to me they are the only blood family I have in this life.
So dont think your wrong or abnormal to have these feelings as its possible to love a thing and dislike qualities in it at the same time.
It's this what makes us human. Try not to dwell on their negatives.
Goodluck.
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