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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been seeing this girl every weekend for about a month and a half. we live a few hours apart. we stay at each others houses in the same bed when either of us visits. she acts interested in me. I want to have sex with her, but every time we hang out she gets REALLY DRUNK to the point by the time we get home she passes out. I'm not interested in doing her in that state anyway. what is the deal here... is she using the drinking to avoid having sex with me? Second base is getting pretty old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): So do you like your women drunk and passed out?
She has a problem with alcohol, she lives a few hours away from you and you have been doing the same thing each date for a month and a half.
I agree you can't "expect" sex from her or anyone else.
If I were you, I would cut this one loose and find a girl in your home town. Surely you don't have to go five hours away to find a bed buddy, which is from the sounds of it what you want.
I bet you could even find a girl who doesn't drink to the point of passing out, maybe even a girl you , gasp, like and want to ask to be your girlfriend.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (2 November 2009):
 No, she's getting drunk because she has a problem with alcohol. Wouldn't surprise me if she was doing this even when you weren't around.
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