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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. For the past few weeks, I've felt that there has been an unspoken emotional and physical distance between us. Both of us have been busy lately, and haven't had that much time, which I understand and take into account, but I'm feeling really uncomfortable because I'm not sure whether he cares about the relationship anymore or not. So I tried to take to him about it in a very nonthreatening manner and just say that I'm not okay with the distance anymore and that I feel like he doesn't care that much about the relationship. He just got really defensive and said he had to go. I really like my boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but I can't be in a relationship where I'm seeing my boyfriend once every two weeks (we are not long distance) and can't even be honest with him about my feelings, no matter how rational or irrationale they are. I honestly hope its just a communication issue between us and I just want both of us to be happy together and not break up! How can I save this relationship...
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reader, Jessesgurl9218 +, writes (2 November 2009):
i am soo having this issue with my boyfriend too!
We have been dating six months to and i just feel like he doesnt care about it or is just acting like a dumb guy and not "getting it."
I say you try to talk to him about it and if thats not good enough tell him that if your important to him and if he wants this to work hes gonna have to deal with it if not then he isnt worth it. Have you guys said i love you yet?
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