We've had a baby together and now he's lost all interest in me!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well...me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and a half. I just had a baby with him about three weeks ago and it seems like he's lost all affection towards me. This was my first baby but he has a baby from a previous girl so that puts a strain on our relationship too. I feel as if he's already done this game before and our baby was an accident to him because his first child was and he only stayed with the girl for the babys sake. I really just fel so alone even when he's there. We don't cuddle or hand hold or even talk anymore unless its about our daughter. Is it just me being immature because I'm so young or is there a way I can fix this?

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