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writes:hello need some advice! I was with my boyfriend for nearly two years, i loved him very much but we started arguing daily and i felt like there was little trust in the relationship.. so even though i wanted to be with him, i knew i shouldnt be with him.. i knew it was for the best. Its been two weeks since we broke up but im constantly thinking about him and most nights am crying over him. Is this just a phase I'll get over? I was 16 when we got together so he was my first proper boyfriend, Im missing him so much.. What'll I do?
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (2 November 2009):
Just hang in there sweetie. You know you've made the right decision but it doesn't make it any less painful, does it?
Breaking up with someone is horrible and it always hurts really badly - it's normal to feel like this and only time will help you heal so don't feel bad for feeling sad.
It is just a phase though. You won't feel like this forever, I promise - even though it might feel like that at the moment. It passes slowly.
Allow yourself some time to feel sad - just not too much. Maybe an hour a day, when you're allowed to feel sad and cry and listen to your favourite song. The rest of the time, try and distract you self with activity. Make sure you make time for fun with all your girl-friends and family and try to make some new friends too.
It sucks at the moment but take things slow and you will start to feel better
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 November 2009):
I'm afraid it is. No doubt it was painful, and it will be hard. You won't get over this for a while, but make sure that you're still socliazing and having fun, and don't sit bu the phone. Focus on yourself for now and give yourself time. You'll get there. Good luck.
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reader, loubylou84 +, writes (2 November 2009):
Its understandable youre upset, your first boyfriend as well as being together for 2years, its a long time and you cant just get over it in a few days.
Just remember that youve got friends and family around for support when you need them :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): You have been brave and no doubt it was hard.
You will get throug this but it wont happen over night.
Take your time to recover from this , look after you and you will get there in the end.
Elpigaro
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