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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my bestfriend just found out recently that we both really like one of our friends. She had started telling me that I should tell him I like him and ask him out. I refused, even though i'm dying to tell him, because she is my best friend and I don't want to hurt her and the fact that I had a really bad incident last week which has left me pretty trumatised... Anyway, she has never told anyone that she likes them and the fact that she was thinking of telling him is a bit thing for her. So I told her she should tell him. She has said she might.The thing is all this is absultly killing me because i'm pretty sure I love this boy but I want to see the both of them happy. Is it wrong of me to feel a little bit betrayed by her saying she might even though I said she could? I feel really bad about it. Does anybody have any advice? Should I just sit back and watch or should I really tell her how i'm feeling on the whole situation? -which i'm not sure about because she seems so happy... Help?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 I think from what it sounds like, your friend needs to tell the guy she likes him more than you do, but be careful that he won't completely reject her if she isn't very confident. As for you, I think it would strengthen your friendship to put her wants ahead of yours and you can go out and meet some new guys that you'll like.good luckxx
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