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writes:I finally told this boy I liked him, even though he has a girlfriend. He always flirts with me and the other night he was sending me some extremly flirty texts about if he didn't have a girlfriend he would get with me and do stuff. I really like him, does this mean he likes me?
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reader, Garm  +, writes (2 November 2009):
These situations always end badly for both parties. If you care about him, even slightly, you will let him alone. If he wanted you he would have REALLY pursued you. He just wants your attention--and maybe sex.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 In a situation like this you are the only one who will get hurt. Don't go there. He's enjoying the attention you're giving him and he's not going to be your boyfriend.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 November 2009):
I think you should be more concerned with your insecurities than whether or not this boy actually likes you (and he probably doesn't). If you were more secure with yourself, you wouldn't go after boys with girlfriends.
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reader, AskLadyJuJu +, writes (2 November 2009):
 agreed!!!! with quiet-echo
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reader, PixiePie +, writes (2 November 2009):
 not necessarily, watch yourself with this one.
it could just be a case of the grass is greener on the other side syndrome, he might be perfectly in love with his girl but wants a bit of fun on the side.
don't show him you like him and you can't get hurt. if he really wants to make it something he'll come to you and let you know
otherwise don't waste your time because you'll be the one getting hurt while he's off with his girl.
be careful love!!
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