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*llie:)
writes:ok so this will only take a few seconds please help... my best friend is 19 and i am only 17 he says he is in love with me.. i think his really hot and sweet and his a bad boy 2..... but i dont want it to ruin our friendship... i trust him with all my heart.. my question is should i go out with him????? would it hurt our relashionship if we break up???????? please please help thanks
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (14 November 2009):
ellie:) is verified as being by the original poster of the question THANK U GUYS SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH :) i think keeping it just as friends is a good idea and i did!!! but now his super pissed at me and is crazy drama.. his acting like a child :( idk wat to do..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 November 2009):
Been to jail! Are you really sure you want to get involved with this guy, because he sounds like he's serious trouble to me.
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reader, ellie:) +, writes (3 November 2009):
ellie:) is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni get what everyone is saying. but maybe u guys didnt understand what i was trying to say . i dont mean "bad boy" like he cheated. he has never cheated!! but like he is way more experinced!!!!,he has gone to jail b4...... i am really attracted to the guy but i am worried about r friendship and if i say no wouldnt that hurt our frienship too?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): There is a third way. Keep the relationship as friends with benefits. In your own mind stay emotionally aloof, let him prove his sincerity before you let him be the one you love.
And be forgiving and adventurous with him. If he is bored he will likely wander.
If you keep him as only a friend you may very well miss out on an opportunity to find a soul mate.
But life is risk. You place your bets and you take your chances.
The only thing I can guarantee is you will be hurt in life, everyone is.
If it's not him it will be someone else.
And if you spurn him long enough he may end the friendship any way.
I had to do that when I had to watch the girl who wouldn't date me but confided in me and called me her friend, date a series of progressively bigger morons. I could not take it any more.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 November 2009):
The answer will take a few seconds too. He's a bad boy, and I think as most women who have been with bad boys will tell you, he'll probably hurt you. Yes, he might be hot and sweet, but at the end of it, he's still a bad boy and he wil leave you hurt if it goes wrong. Being a guy, I know about guys, and I can tell you that a bad boy usually remains a bad boy for a long time and leaves a trail of broken hearts behind him. Really don't date him if you want to remain friends, because it will leave you hurt and without his friendship.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (2 November 2009):
I wouldn't, usually when a guy says they love you, they want something else. If you decided to be with him, it would probably ruin your friendship.
I just don't get how people think they know what loves is at that age, I am 28 and still cannot figure it out.
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