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Should I tell him about my past with this other guy?

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Question - (2 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been "talking" to a scorpio guy I like for a couple months now, but we aren't together in any way. We have hung out 3 times away from work, and we both have feelings for each other. Before me and him met, I had a sexual relationship with a gemini guy he does not get along with at all. Now that me and him are interested in each other, I don't know if I should tell him about this past. Me and this other guy haven't told anyone about our sexual thing, but im worried that his strong dislike for the person im now talking to will make him say something just to screw it up when he finds out im interested in his enemy. Im so confused now. What should I do? I'll also add that we all work together, so its not really avoidable.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

It is avoidable, stop using your work place as your dating pool if you intend to work there for long.

There is a big wide world out there just full of men.

I agree with the others as well.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

Honesty is important in a relation no matter how hard it is to tell the truth, especially to someone you have affection for it is better if you tell them whats on your chest.

hope it helped

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (2 November 2009):

duce00 agony auntWhat Sis said and one more thing. You really shouldn't date or screw where you work for what should now be obvious reasons.

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