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What do these mixed signals mean that she has been giving me?

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Question - (2 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *xalon writes:

There is this one shy girl I like, who happens to be my best friend's sister. Lately, I have been getting the impression that she likes me (i.e. she'd look at me when I'm not looking at her, act surprised when I say something to her, talks to her parents’ about me, etc.) However, lately she's been giving me mixed signals.

First off, as already mentioned, she will sometimes look at me, especially as she's walking by me. She also doesn't talk to me much. However, when my parents' showed up the last time I saw her, she opened up to them and most importantly didn't look at me much while they were there.

Also during the last time I saw her, when she was going to bed, she said "goodnight" and it was directed at me. On the other hand, one other time, she said "bye" while looking at my Mom.

Finally, she frowned at me two times on two separate occasions, one time she looked at the floor afterwards. The last time I saw her she didn't frown at me at all. Sure this is a good sign, but I just don't know why she did it in the first place.

Anyway, do you have any idea why she keeps doing these things?

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A male reader, axalon United States +, writes (3 November 2009):

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In response to the last answer by anonymous: how am I a stranger to her if I see her brother every week and go to his house every other week for the past 2 years.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2009):

Well she sounds interested, but very shy. There's only one way to be sure though, and that's to speak to her. Be brave and listen to her and give her time. See what happens.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (2 November 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntmmmmm.... sounds like she is very shy but does want to make friends with you...

Why dont you make the first move by talking to her, ask her out, then I am sure you will find out whether she likes you or not...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

i believe she is shy and would like to get to know you, you are a stranger, until you get to know her, you can't tell whether she likes you or not...hope this helps x

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