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writes:There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some familiar problems the last few years. She even wanted to commit suicide.. At that time her boyfriend (they are now for 2 years together)wanted to leave her and split, witch makes me think badly about her.I got told that she is using me because I do care hella lot about her. I'm even starting to fall in love with her, but she doesn't know. She even tried to make me kiss her a few times as we watched both together some horror movies 2 days ago... I didn't follow the temptation though. Should I really get over her? I mean, she may be using me out, but I can't imagine it from her. Do women actually hide their true intentions? Because she likes me a lot I guess... Its making me pretty crazy...Please help :-SThank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, Hellium +, writes (2 November 2009):
Hellium is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll try to keep my emotions in the glass pot and I will research a littler deeper what is going on with her, her boyfriend and me. I hope that I'm right this time and that I have a chance with her. But in retrospection I'll probably fail in this one, once again, beating my record: 21 Years old without never having kissed a woman.. DO you might know a way to find out if she's playing around with me? It would be fantastic.. I personally don't know because I never have had the posibility to examine a womans' way of dealing with emotional things...
Thanks for all your help
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 November 2009):
Some do, just like there are some men that do. To be honest, this girl already has a boyfriend so she's not yours anyway. I agree with the other post below. Limit all your time with her and see how it goes. If she's truly interested, then she'll dump her boyfriend and choose you. If she doesn't, then you'll know where you stand.
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reader, Prana  +, writes (2 November 2009):
Yes, We all want what we want, and getting what you want involves setting things up to go how you want them to.
Im not sure what her motive could be, but I'm tempted to say, just have fun... but you stated that you've started to fall for her. Playing could lead to more pain then pleasure so choose wisely.... asking her what she wants out of a relationship with you also is in order.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 yes, some women can, and some women do, hide their true intentions.Some women also like to experiment with seeing how far they can go with men, such as arousing them with no intention of following through.This girl is in a relationship of 2 years, I would recommend you limit your interaction with her for a while, it seems she is playing some games with you
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