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writes:i posted a question a couple of days ago because i was unsure of whether the guy i liked liked me back. i now know that he does like me back but he has made out with two girls recently and is not dating either of them. he has told them this and they have taken it well. thing is do i date him or not? i feel bad for having doubts but i don't want to be hurt like these other girls. help. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 November 2009):
This guy sounds like a player. I be those other girls that he used did care about being used, and I bet they're even hurt about it. You're instinct is already telling you that there is a chance you will be used and hurt like these other girls, because the truth is, he's just trying to get with as many girls as he can at the moment. You'd be better not bothering with him and waiting for a better guy to come along. Don't even be used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): nope
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (2 November 2009):
 Sweetheart at your age I think he is trying to rack up as many females as he can. How old is he btw? Have you already lost your virginity or are you still a virgin? He may be out to be the one boy around who can keep a track of how many females he has been with by the sounds of things, he will tell girls what he knows they want to hear but the fact that you have already found out that he has been out with two girls recently and he has told them about it afterwards leads me to believe he used them and then told them. Bit late after the event, if he was totally honest then he should say what it is before he beds down with them. Well depends on if this is definitely the case with these other two girls. If it was me and you knew who these other girls were, I would go up and ask them outright how everything happened with them and tell them that he has shown interest in you and should you be wary and stay well clear of him or did they know upfront what he was like and what he was after? Best to be prepared in my opinion and if you do like him and you know what he is like then you have control not him. Only do what you want to do and don't allow yourself to be manipulated into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with. Also do you want your name bandied around that he was able to get from you what he wanted. That sort of reputation is not what a girl needs believe me as every boy then thinks she is an easy target. BFNCountry Woman
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