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36-40,
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writes:I recently moved in with my boyfriend after being with him for just over 3 years and just before we moved in together, I started to get feelings for a coworker. We got on so well and we always flirted. Ever since I left the company (to move in with my boyfriend and I got a better job offer), I cant stop thinking about him. We keep in regular contact and I'm wondering whether its a stupid crush or whether I need to start questioning my relationship with my boyfriend. Can anyone help?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 November 2009):
I think the move with your boyfiend has perhaps made you feel a little contstrained or less free, so flirting with this other guy makes you feel free still. Were you feeling very nervous about your move, and this coworker made you feel a little less scared of the move? I don't think you need to start questioning your relationship with your boyfriend yet, because it's not even really a crush, it's just flirting. But make sure you're speaking to your boyfriend, and spending time with him, and making sure you both know you're loved. Hopefully, you'll realize that you've made the right decision by moving in and continue to be happy with him. Good luck.
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