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writes:I have this problem that I'm not really sure how to overcome. I know what I should do but maybe need some advice. I hope this isnt too descriptive or anything..So I'm in my early 20's and I've never been able to orgasm with a male there. I've never had an orgasm during sex or while a guy is doing things to me. My boyfriend blames himself but its not him! It still feels amazing and I've been so close but its like I hit this wall and I cant quite go through it.But I really want to cum with my boyfriend or at least let him make me - hes doing everything right whilst hes going down or me but as it gets really intense I make him stop. Every time I make him stop and I dont know why... I know I just need to relax and go with the flow and I am I'm trying... but I keep stopping for some reason. I cant get over that barrier. I'm able to orgasm with my vibrator in the comfort of my room by myself its just while someone else is there but I want share that experience with my boyfriend. Any advice?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 mmmmm.... either 'assist' him by rubbing your clit while he is giving you oral or use the vibrator during sex so that you can orgasm too...
And... you need to relax!! Sounds like you are so obsessed with having an orgasm that you are stopping yourself from having an orgasm... relax and concentrate on all the good feelings he gives you and you will then discover that you can have an orgasm with a man!!
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reader, Mysti76  +, writes (2 November 2009):
Maybe you should incorporate the two somehow..if your boyfriend isn't all weirded out by a toy being involved..I'm not sure my boyfriend would be super psyched about it. I can't "cross the barrier" during oral either..lol..for one thing my partner doesn't do it right and when he does I'm all concerned with what he's thinking ect. I can't relax enough to fully enjoy it. Its funny how guys don't understand its good just to be having sex I don't necessarily have to orgasm to feel tons better afterward.
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