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writes:I had anal sex for the first time, and we did it with out lube i said I would try it but it hurt so much i couldnt take it, but my bf wouldnt stop , now im bleeding and in pain but i'd be to embaressed to go see a doctor about it, could i really be badly damaged?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): go to a Dr., and trust us, this will be far from anything that will shock them. They are there to heal you, NOT judge you and will act very professional.
Your body will heal, but is going to need some time.
As fot your BF, dump that bastard, and don't look back. What he did was unforgivable and clearly shows that he pust his few seconds of pleasure ahead of days of your suffering. This is not a loving man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): oh my goodness! Anal hurts soo bad WITH lube the first few times. That is inexcusable to me...you could be damaged but do the warm soaks and ointment for a few days...also witchhazel is good for the anal area. Very soothing...if a week doesnt make a huge difference, see a doctor. Good luck sweetie.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 Dont be embarrassed to go to your doctor they deal with these complaints most of the time.
I would advise you to go to the doctor to get a proper diagnosis but until then you can try the following to ease the pain there:
* Warm baths are soothing, and may help the anus to relax which may ease the pain.
* A cream or ointment that contains an anaesthetic may help to ease the pain. You should use this only for short periods at a time (5-7 days). If you use it for longer, the anaesthetic may irritate or sensitise the skin around the anus. You can get one on prescription. You can also buy some of these products at pharmacies without a prescription.
* A cream or ointment that contains a steroid may be prescribed by a doctor if there is a lot of inflammation around the fissure. Steroids reduce inflammation, and may help to reduce any swelling around a fissure. This may help to any ease itch and pain. You should not use it for longer than one week at a time.
* Wash the anus carefully with water after you go to the toilet. Dry gently. Don't use soap whilst it is sore as it may irritate.
Please go to the doctors soon though as they will prescribe the exact treatment!
Goodluck
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