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female
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51-59,
*c Rae
writes:hello i have been in a relationship for 5 year's and i know it's not good for me am stressed most of the time ,i lost all my friend's because of him,when i talk on the phone he makes me stress ,so i don't talk on phone now.am 41 he 48 and he control my life .how can i stop this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jc Rae +, writes (20 November 2009):
Jc Rae is verified as being by the original poster of the question I would like to thank you all for your help.
To the female that answer my qustion ,i know am 41 and belelive me it's hard to leave when he is my only family.
I did take your advice ...we will see what happen's
THANK GOD FOR INTERNET
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male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 November 2009):
There is only one way to stop it.
Leave him now, before you feel any worse, or his abuse gets worse.
He's not a nice guy, he doesn't have any respect for you, and he's not worth another moment of yout time. Get away from him now, because there is no way he will change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): The only way you can stop the controlling behavior is to stop the relationship. At 41 years old you should know that.
It doesn't seem that you want to leave because you asked how can you stop this. So the best advice I can give you is to visit a domestic violence shelter. Listen to the horror stories of the women that has been abused or listen the stories of those who lost loved ones from this type of abuse. If he hasn't physically abused you (which I believe he has), believe me he is just one heartbeat away from it. The verbal abuse, isolation, and controlling behavior is just the beginning. It is only going to get worse. You've already wasted 5 years don't waste anymore.
I don't mean to lecture, but you know better. Don't be a fool. GET OUT NOW! Best of luck
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