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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm incredibly lonely and I have no idea how to pull myself out of it! I know having a boyfriend doesn't solve everything, but I feel that having someone to spend time with and talk to just makes life ten times easier. I've never been in a real relationship (never had a boyfriend), so I don't feel I know how to go about finding someone. I know getting out of the house is a start, but right now my finances aren't so great so going out isn't really an option. What can I do to get a boyfriend and pull myself out of this slump? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): I assure you, if you get a boyfriend now, in the mental state you are in. You are going to cling way too hard, and probably scare him away. Keep looking for a bf, but try to make some regular friends for now. the community center idea is not so bad. Plus it is so much easier to meet some one you are interested in through friends you already have.
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