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*yborgninja911
writes:I'm wondering if a girl can ever learn to stop dating a-holes and end up with a decent guy who treats her well. Will she change as she gets older and matures? Will she open her eyes and see the guy who's always been there is the right one for her? How many nights spent crying over cheating jerks does it take? Is there some kind of switch that goes off after a certain amount?I know what you're thinking...I've half accepted that she will never feel what I feel for her. I'll always be "just a friend". But I still don't like watching her hurt herself.Have any of you ladies ended up with the guy who you thought was nice but never quite saw as a boyfriend?Do I have a little bit of hope? And if not , will she at least meet someone good enough? I don't want her to eventually marry one of the jerks. Reply to this Question
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reader, cyborgninja911 +, writes (4 June 2009):
cyborgninja911 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I haven't had the will power to tell her, I've still got to find the right time to do it. I'm going to a graduation party at her house this weekend, that may be a good time to tell her how I feel. Face to face.
I'm still worried about risking our friendship by telling her how I feel. :(
I really appreciate your input and your interest, It's what I need to gather the courage to tell her. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): So, what happened? Did you tell her? How are things with you now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I think you shuld tell her how you feel. At worse, she will back up, but she can come around wiht at least feeling flatered. I don;t think you sound creepy, and I don';t think she will think so on reflection, she already knows how supportive you can be. Who knows, you might spark up her attraction. And even if things don't go the way you hope, you will still feel good about yourself because you ave the courage to be honest to yuorself and to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I think you shuld tell her how you feel. At worse, she will back up, but she can come around wiht at least feeling flatered. I don;t think you sound creepy, and I don';t think she will think so on reflection, she already knows how supportive you can be. Who knows, you might spark up her attraction. And even if things don't go the way you hope, you will still feel good about yourself because you ave the courage to be honest to yuorself and to her.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (25 May 2009):
 Have you told her that you'd like to date her? If you're just hanging around hoping she will magically see the light and not saying anything, you will never be her boyfriend. It doesn't matter how nice you are to her, how many times you bend over backward to help her out; if you don't ask her out you will stay in the friend zone forever and she'll keep going out with the guys who do ask her, you know, the guys you consider assholes.
You can't control who she falls for. You can't control who she marries. You can't control anything about her and honestly you shouldn't want to. Frankly you sound kind of creepy.
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