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*ndor
writes:So I met this guy not to long ago. From the moment i met him I loved his speech, his train of though.... EVERYTHING! We try to talk as much as possible and I already know he likes me. He reminds me constantly on how adorable he thinks i am and how he loves my eyes and that he thinks I'm very intelligent. And I like him a lot too. Fascinating, amusing and as sweet as can be.The problems are.... hes 6 years older then me. I'm 14 and he's 20. And at first he was saying that he would ask me out in a heartbeat if not for age but I encouraged him into liking me(saying stuff like that I'll promise him a date and well just flirting back). But yeah... he's not a pedophile or anything.... Another problem is... our religion. I'm a christian and my parents are pastors. He has a religion that's based off of the Bible, science and just personal beliefs. Sorta made up I guess. But I find his views interesting but my parents would never approve. The last problem is that I live in Wyoming and he's from Virginia. He's going to visit in 3 years if I'm still interested in him (which I'm sure will still be the case). It's just that I think my family will have a hard time excepting him. Kind of a forbidden love that 'm stuck with here. Any suggestions? Or thoughts on this?
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reader, Ondor +, writes (26 May 2009):
Ondor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk. Thanks to Shauna. We were planning to wait a few years anyway. We were thinking 3 possibly.
And for the other two... he's really not a perv. I mean, I guess you would have to talk to him to understand, but he started liking me over a debate we had. I proved his theory on religion wrong and that's when he started liking me. He didn't want to like me but i encouraged him to. He's not as bad as he seems
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Back away from the perv, you're young he's old. You're gonna screw up you're life. My friend had this happen to her she fell in love with a 22 year old being only 14 and endded up having sex almost being kidnapped and than he was arrested. I suggest you stop this relationship before it goes any further and something happens
Good luck
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Stay Safe
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): what does any normal 20 year old want in a 14 year old? He is very strange. Id start to wonder why he can't get a gf his own age?????
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