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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met my ex last year summer time,he bumped into me in a chip shop got hes mate to ask for my number. i refused to give it. fate brought us together because he found me on a chat site a few weeks later. he was the type of guy that was unique send me msgs that a normal 17 yr old boy wouldnt send, he was mature. anyway he added me ms later and kept nudgin me wantin to talk to me but iwas too blind and busy to see it. one day i was upset and had boyfriend trouble i turned to him he gave me advice and from that day on we spoke more often. through this time he kept asking for my numbr after 3 months i gave it. he used to txt me every mornin i never had credit to txt back. we became great friends that we didnt realise when we started to fall in love with each other. hes girl mate whom i was bit jealous of their friendship hooked us up after an arguement about that. anyway we got together it was the perfect love story, things got messy it was holidays due to family i couldnt get the time to meet up often being the summer holidays and he used to fone me i was never there :( i never for some reason called him as often as i should have. we been through so much together arguements and standing me up in the rain too making each other laugh, knowin what to say to make the other half feel better. perfect until he started college he met sum1 there and chose her over me basically i was parnoid he tried to dump me face to face but didnt have the guts too so he done on bad terms.got hes mate to ring anyway shortly after all this happened i took him bak in my life as friends he couldnt be he became a bit possesive and didnt realise we was friends if i missed a call thats it he had arguement swearin and making me jealous saying i should know tha my mates set him up all sorts of stuff hurtful stuff. at the heat of the moment i dont think he realised what he was saying but my family got involved and went to warn him off.. he never stayed in contact he dissapeared. lately i have been bumping into him quite often and not long recieved a call off him saying forget the past im sorry and please forigive me. i accepted in the moment because i still do feel for him even though family got in the way. but who do i chose family will always be there, and what if he does want more? want me back i have been waiting for this day for ages but he hurt he can do it again? what if he wants revenge for me sending my family memeber to warn him off and scare him. i mean i trust him he was different towards me affection but i dnt know i really do love him.but i scared if he lets me down humilates me and takes revenge! and doesnt want me back and it was all a set up again. what should i doo?? shall i take things slowly see what happens, make it clear too him we are friends or confront him and say look if u want revenge take it im here do whatever im truly sorry it wasnt my fault and see wht hapens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Honey, it wasn't his family that broke you apart, it was his bad behavior and other women. He's impulsive and has a wandering eye and is less than honest with you. They are called "bad boys" for a reason and he's one of them and they just bring pain and heartbreak.
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