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writes:Okay so heres my story.me and this guy have had this thing for a while since last year. we know that we alwayss have will have feelings for eachother.he's going out with my friend and it was his party at a fancy place by the water. she was really acting weird toward him. you can tell she doesnt care much for him but he loves her a lot. he buys her expensive gifts and she doesnt accpet them and he tries to kiss her and she turns his head. i was talking with him about her because we tel eachother everything and he said "i guess she likes hanging out with her friends more than her botfriend" i felt horrible and i started to form feelings for him. i knew i loved him and he loved her and shes not taking him seriously. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Hey:
This is your friend's boyfriend. If you have any respect for your friendship, there is nothing you can do. I think you know this, but are considering doing something anyway. Just know that if you do, you will lose your friendship, and if you are in a circle of friends, most people will take her side. Its not right to go after someone else's boyfriend, and even less right when the other person is your friend. You will do what you want to do, but you are risking a lot and I'm afraid this won't end well. You should forget about this boy (although I understand this will be hard) and find someone more appropriate. That way you will keep your friendship and integrity intact.
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