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writes:A man's perspective would be most helpful, but if any women have any understanding of this as well, I'll take whatever you have to say--Why would a man repeatedly fantasize about and ask to come in a woman during unprotected sex, when he also says in equal measure that he 'would kill himself' if he ever got a woman pregnant, 'even if it was the love of his life'? I don't get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): It is perfectly normal for the male to ejaculate inside a woman and pefectly natural for her to receive his sperm. nature made sex for babies first, pleasure as a by product of sex, not the pleaure first. We abuse sex and live an a totally abnormal world and go against nature. A woman who is on the pill has a far better sexual relationship then any woman who wants a man to wear a condom. Research has suggest that any woman who receives his sperm, causes her moods to become less moody, etc. A male was designed to impregnate as many females as possible and a woman was made to become pregant. We live so far removed from nature and restrict sex to unatural rules and condtions we have made our so called sick and abnromal people in soceity. Sexual purves, etc all steam from the fact we don't have sex naturally and people are to self centred and selfish to want and enjoy sex naturally, we have abused it so pay for it. A woman being on the pill and having sex naturally as nature intended in the most womanful thing in the world, to let the male do as nature intended, makes both partners closer together and far less stress is relesed. using a condom is totally unatural, artifical and since the sensation is cut down cuts down the feeling of the male climax and closeness both partners obtain without condoms. We play with sex, abuse it and abuse each other sexually, not wonder soceity is screwed and people now never have proper sex lives or can never get close. People are to selfish to even want kids and if it does not fit in with their time of life and place then discard the unwanted pregancy. It steems fro totally selfishness from the male and female and imaturety of the human race now to accept responsiblity for sex. No baby should ever be unwanted. If it is like this then you should never have sex until you really love someone or can except responsbilties of having kids. Afterall sex was designed first and formost to bring kids into this world pleasure second. Any other way is sexual abuse of each other which leads to sexual scares and being hurtful. There are so many around now who have been sexual abused and used and use each other for sex, no wonder you cannot find proper love. often people don't get close anymore, so go from one relationship to another. Since we now use sex the wrong way we suffer from a sick soceity and sick people and abnomal sexual practices. The answer id woman get on the pill and experence real sex and let the male do want nature intends, ejaculate up a woman, you both will be happer for it and closer than anyone who uses condoms and the best side effect is it also makes a woman happer as she meant to receive his sperm. Research backs this up. We are so far removed from nature it's not funny. Sex with condoms is artifical and does not produce that real close feeling when a man ejeculates inside a woman. It's artifual and so cold, sex does not feel real or no where as enoyable. If we reserved sex like they used to then there would not be any problem with STD's. At one time a woman reserved sex only for that one special man and he was very lucky and special so had great meaning to him, now because both have sex so freely there is now nothing special between a man and woman, she not longer has anything to give him, or him her, you both don't grow together sexually, which was also special sex had meaning now it means nothing but used and abused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): I'm guessing because it's just extremely primal and animalistic.
My boyfriend and I have sex without condoms and he ejaculates inside of me most of the time. Rarely does he ever pull out. I'm on the pill though and have been for nearly a decade. We're pretty responsible about it and I avoid having sex when I'm ovulating as well.
I like it. I prefer it. It's just inherently built into men to want to do that. (I think)
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reader, Sandman +, writes (25 May 2009):
 Well, it is not a fantasy of mine, but I would rather ejaculate inside a woman without a condom than with one on.
For me, knowing that the woman is getting ready to accept my ejaculate unprotected makes my orgasms somehow stronger and better. Of course, she IS on the pill and we both and vetted each others sexual past/history. So the caveat is I have never had sex without a condom unless I was sure about her past and she was on the pill.
Having said that, I hope you have obtained his sexual history as I am sure this isn't the first time he has done this with a woman - which greatly increases his chances of contracting an STI and passing it along to you.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): because from a person perspective it is the most natural wonderful thing the world, very animalistic to mate completely.
But obviously with this, comes great responsibility...you can have children and therefore sex is not a game or a tick list. For this man, he is scared of that....so the answer is he is not ready. I also think he is saying can you go on the pill please... but do this if you want to, after an sti check...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): have you ever been to pluto...hahhahah
Well to answer your question its a thing aobut fetish more than reality. In a sense of defining human charateristics of fantasy its rather crucial to include the fetish of men that includes any such act and so it has everything to do with fantacy and afterwards praying to any and all gods that you don't get pregnant....cause you know how that can screw things up....lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Why would a man fantasize about putting on a condom and ejaculating into it? If he's asking to come inside you but doesn't want to get you pregnant, he just has low impulse control and is inherently selfish. Like a guy who has a girlfriend but can't keep his dick in his pants. Responsible people have fantasies but most can make responsible choices.
If what you posted is your situation, I would seriously consider whether I would want to be involved with a guy like this.
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