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writes:In two weeks I will be meeting my boyfriend at his house what should I wear. It is our first date is it okay for us to cuddle since we have only been talking to each other thru email for four days now? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Four days isn't a long time to be emailing someone! So i'd hold back physically at first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): plse NO CUDDLING OR EVEN KISSING. you don't know him at all, he is a stranger. and also tell someone where you will be (at his home) so that if something goes wrong, the police know where to find you. you are not easy and should not appear as such. wear some " conservative" clothes that makes you comfortable. you do not want to say come get me, i am yours. easy does it. or this man will just want the sex and nothing more. test the waters. see if he and even you are interested in each other other than sexually.just be careful with strangers and "dating". always tell some one where you will be. this warning is not only for our kids but for all women. strange twisted things are happening to people and i don't want you to be one of them. good luck, legs closed, clothes on, no cuddling- if something is going to happen later on then fine but not with this stranger on the 1st date. he needs to work for it, if you value yourself. he may in turn value you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): How is this your boyfriend if you haven't been on a date yet? Just asking because that seems strange. Shouldn't he be taking you out to dinner or coffee or a movie, etc? If you've only emailed him for a few days and never met him, this sounds like he just wants to hook up and that you are agreeing to that, not that he sees a relationship in the future.
If what you posted is accurate, I don't think you should be going to someone's house you've never met and I think it's just about sex for him. You sound very gullible and I'd hate to see anything bad happen to you or for you to get into a situation you didn't expect.
Agreeing to meet a guy at his house you don't know for a "date" is not a "date" and he's not your "boyfriend"- it's a sexual arrangement.
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