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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi i hope someone can help or advise. a guy i work with has recently been flirting and making comments that imply he likes me. last week i was at work at the start of my night shift. during the day i had been upset by something my boyfriend had done, but i didn't say anything to this other guy and just tried to remsin my normal happy self. he picked up on the fact there was something wrong and asked if i was ok and why i was upset. i said yes am fine thanks and not to worry, it was ok. he kept looking at me and said i dont like it when you're upset you have a really nice smile. a few days after that he aked again if i was ok and we chatted and had a laugh. Last night in front of my colleague, he was chatting to me and suddenly said to my colleague, she makes my life so hard and its difficult to concentrate because of her smile, she takes up lots of my thoughts. i didn't quite know what to say so said nothing and went red. my colleague said afterwards that the chemistry between us is so sparky and she thinks he really likes me but is scared to do anything about it. I'm not the sort of person to ask him out right or even do anything about it first. what do you think he is saying and what if anything should i do ? we get on so well and i don't want to lose a friend or hurt my boyfriend.
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reader, mitta +, writes (25 May 2009):
Well you've said you dont want to hurt your boyfriend so dont do anything!
Do you even like this guy? Dont take his flirting as anything too seriously, he is not necessarily the love of your life because he thinks you have a nice smile. the fact that you are even considering this tells me that you feel deep down you are lacking something with your boyfriend. Maybe you've been together a while and its abit stale or you just want some excitement. But sit back and really think about what you would be losing by persuing this man who may just be tamely flirting with you.
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