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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend says he needs me, cares about me and loves me. We were getting on just fine until about a week ago and now hes suddenly turned into an arsehole. He asked me to move in after the first time we met and i accepted, we both really liked each other and didnt really want to part. So i moved my things in, we didnt argue, it was all going really sweet til about a week ago. Now every night after hes finished work we argue, or i walk out of the room in silence and cry in the bedroom. See thing is, ive been home twice since i moved here about seven weeks ago and those two times ive meant to be getting my ID so i can sign on and get dole money. The first time i got loads of clothes, had been arguing with my mum about it and completely forgot, was in too much of a rush to get out there. The second time i was in hospital with quinzies, was really really ill (anyone whose suffered with it will understand the pain) and i (amazingly!) didnt think about getting my ID when i came back. I could have got my mum to post it but my parents are wary about posting anything incase it gets lost, and i dont really want to lose my passport so i PROMISED him that next time i went home i would remember to get it. I'm going home tomorrow and i've swore to him i will remember it and sign on when i get back. Another thing is; I think i am pregnant. We've taken a couple tests but both have showed up negative so that leads him to believe that im not and that im kidding myself but i KNOW that i am. I didnt want a baby so its not false wishing, i can feel my body changing every day and ive had ALL the symptoms including missed period when im ALWAYS regular. He wants me to go to the doctors to get it confirmed but i would rather do it at my own doctors back in my home city where theyve always known me and i feel safe with them. So i havent been yet, been waiting til i go home which is tomorrow. Ive told him I SWEAR i will do it. But he keeps going round in circles, swearing at me, telling me im pissing him about. I tell him i PROMISE i will do it and he says make sure you fuckin do this time, and it goes round like that over and over. we're getting nowhere.He's told his mum about it all on facebook. I know i shouldnt have read the message but i couldnt help myself. Hes just moaning on at her about how sick of me he is and how much of a bitch im being lately and how even tho the tests show up neg i believe i am and its making me seem like such a psycho bitch to his mum!! Its not how it is at all. Just, being a woman and having my instincts i know that i am and ive kept forgetting my ID but im sorting it!Godddddddd i'm sick of it! Help pleaseee?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnother thing as well is;
He tells his mum how i STILL havent signed on and its really pissing him off but he fails to mention how ive given him like 150 quid and ive bought a weeks shopping for us as well. I do all the cleaning, i dont slob around (i make an effort with myself.) Im always a good person to him, im not a pyscho bitch, i dont shout at him or hit him, i always care about him and tell him when hes overspending etc. He only ever tells her the bad points so im gonna seem like such an arsehole to her and i dont want to make bad impressions to his family cos i know how much families can impact on a relationship!!
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