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writes:The father of my baby humiliated me when I was pregnant, he said the baby is not his I suffered my pregnancy.I forgave him after I gave birth I accommodated him clothe and fed him.He turned to be abusive I left him for good.He called me names that I am a prostitute and all sort of things, by God's grace I am making it in my career full time and I also study part time. he wants me back and I have found the love of my life now and we r getting married next year.Am I wrong if I say he should go to hell where he belongs?
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (25 May 2009):
 No, you are totally right to let him know where to go as he has treated you like dirt and denied his child. You don't go around and disrespect the mother of your child and then think a little further down the line, oh she will take me back.
You have found happiness and that is great, go with it and ignore your ex, you said he was abusive, so why even consider anything to do with him, if he wants to be in your child's life then he needs to step up to the mark and make regular financial arrangements for his child i.e. for schooling, clothing etc. However, if he doesn't want to make any sort of arrangement with you, then he doesn't get access to his child.
I would be a little worried in case this man is unstable and could decide to walk off with your child just to get back at you for finding a man who is decent and wants to be in your life and your child's so I would set things out legally and have access on your terms not his. If he doesn't want any of the above then you have not lost anything as he hasn't been doing anything in the first place.
Good luck and I wish you so much happiness with your new man and your new life together. Your ex missed the boat and he is the one who is now kicking himself, stupid man.
Stay happy and smiling, good luck to you all.
BFN
Country Woman
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