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*annah15
writes:right i have liked this guy for about 1 year but never really spoke. then his bestfriend who liked my bestfriend trued to set us up then the guy i like got a girlfriend and we only spoke occasionally. well the guy that liked my bestfriend then liked me and then we went were together for like 4 days because to me it just didnt feel right now he still loves me and i love his bestfriend. now my friend likes him to and was flirting with him all night please gice me advice and dont say to let him go as i tried and its impossible x
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reader, slrbabes +, writes (27 May 2009):
 Okay so firstly, you agreed to go out with his best friend, then you can't of liked this guy as much as you thought you did, otherwise why did you agree?
The fact you ended it because you felt nothing (because of your love for the other) doesn't really change anything - the guy could see you as a sort of "player".
It could also be a loyalty thing, if his best mate says he loves you, then the guy aint gonna come after you is he!
Does this guy know how you feel?
Have you told him?
Because if you have, and he hasn't responded, he just sees you as friends. You can choose whether you let him go or not but don't tell him repetitively as it could start to get weird!
Also i'm not sure how old you are, but the 13-15 year old part of life is a time when you think you've fallen in love etc, and relationships only last weeks at the most. Don't focus on this one guy, and miss out the chance to see a number of other guys walk right past you!
Hope this helped
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reader, drick  +, writes (26 May 2009):
well i think that u should tell him how u feel and try and tell his friend that ur friend really likes him and c how it all wrks out but everything happens for a reason maybe its a just a test
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