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writes:ok well i dont want to brag but i am dating this amazing girl i love everything about her. i think i am in love with her we have been dating for almost 3weeks and, idk i mean i cant describe the feeling i get when i am with her so is it really love or a crush?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i mean i know what makes her tick and i know everything cant last forever lol i see that bad in her i see what she does wrong it is just i realy like her idk
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I think that a crush is when you see a person through rose-tinted glasses. You think they are perfect, they can do no wrong in your opinion. And you can have a sort of fairy-tale attitude, with the belief that you will be together forever, live happily ever after, etc...
In my experience, love is more realistic and down to earth, It still feels magical, don't get me wrong. But there is sense there too. It is when you can see a person's flaws, their mistakes, their weaknesses, the bad side of thier personality, and love them just the same.
You know that it might not last forever, but you are determined to make the most of each other while you have each other.
It is about not trying to own the other person. You want them to be happy, whatever it takes, even if that means someday having to let them go. And you will give them your blessing when you do so. It is unconditional, they don't have to do certain things, or behave in a certain way, for you to love them. You love them for how, who, and what they are, the good as well as the bad.
That's been my experience anyway. Hope this helps! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Naw fool your sprung. You can't be madly in love with someone after three weeks.
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