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writes:about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm sloooo much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me cos i felt a connection with my ex from day dot.. abouta month ago he was texting me wanting me to sleep with him i didnt though.cos it hurt too much cos im still very attracted to him ... a week later hes in a relationship which is a long distance one .. im sooo gutted i feel soo used and stupid it hurts soo much,, i txt him the other day telling him how hurt i am cos of what he has done and leting my emotions take control .. it wasnt the nicest message but it had to be said cos ive been so nice to him after everything he did .. he didnt reply 4 a few days but when he did it was at 1:00am he cracked it at me saying that im full of shit and that it hurt him with what i said to him.. so i txt him to say i wanted my shit back cos ive waited soo long 4 them back so i decided i had enough .. he told me to come over and get them so i did .. when i was there he was asking me why i said that he was an asshole and i told him he hurt me and shit.. any way he kept saying that hes in the relationship and that she is his future but he also said its not a serious relationship cos its long distance and stuff ..this was killing me inside him telling me this was absolute torture but i kept a cool head and just listened.. things started to get relly weird because he was saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would sleep with me and he was saying that im very attactive and have a great body and all this shit .. i didnt know what to say so i just stood there cos it was sooo weird him saying that .. he was telling me how much he didnt want to dump me but he felt like he had to watch everything he said cos i was getting upset real easy ... ( i had a little bit of depression) but i always treated him right i gave him the world he told me i was the best gf he has had and that he was thinking of marrying me but then it went bad .. anyway it was getting late so i got my stuff and was goin to go home when i was walking out to my car he was putting his arm around me and stuff.(weird) then he grabbed me and started cuddling me and saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would go me and asked me if i went inside would i do anything and im like hell no ur in a relationhip and i hate cheaters i wouldnt do that ever.... then he was like as if u wouldnt do anything and hes like u wouldnt be the 1 cheating i would be im like nOOOOOO then hes like ohh thats good cos i wouldnt anyway but i couldnt belive it at all i just didnt know wat to do i couldnt beive i was hearing this ... he put his arms around me and started to cuddle me again then he kisssed my forehead and said goodbye .. i was like wtf ... i dont know what he is doin or what hes playing at .. can any1 help me plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Do not ever sleep with him again. Lose his email. his phone numbers. Now hunker down, be really strong and heal from this. Live your life without him and accept this. You need to disengage and let him go, hun. He's very immature and doesn't know what he wants and he's dragging you down. He's playing cruel games with your heart and your emotions. I know you love him...and you need to look hard into yourself to find out why you still love after all that has happened to you. Get that pride and self-respect back and be determined never lose your self-respect to a guy like this, ever again. Dump him, mourn him and recover. It will take time but you will regain some self-pride back, knowing you can and will carry on without him. Life can be harsh..this is one of it's lessons that teach us to be strong and persevere. You will be happy again..you have a lot to offer some decent guy who will love you back and appreciate you for your goodness, your beauty and kindness. Accept that this guy isn't him. Good luck Sweety
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): He's using you for sex. He sounds like an ass. Stay away from this guy. I wouldn't be surprised if he cheated on you too. He's plying games hith you girl. He never deserved you. Shit run don't walk away. Move on you deserve better
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): girlllllllllllll. i know you really care about this boy, but let him go. You got your shit, now leave. If he wanted you for YOU (not just a piece of ass) he wouldn't be with another girl, and wouldn't have left you so easy. You say yourself..."putting his arm around me and stuff.(weird) then he grabbed me and started cuddling me and saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would go me and asked me if i went inside would i do anything" "he put his arms around me and started to cuddle me again then he kisssed my forehead"
Hunny, he wants what's between your legs. I've been in this exact situation, only I kept sleeping with him. It only led me to get hurt EVEN MORE in the long run. Please don't make the same mistake I have.
Good luck.
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